There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship.  Even if it seems perfect now, it won’t always be.  Imperfection, however, is real and beautiful.  The quality of the happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations.  It’s how two people accept and deal with the imperfections of their relationship that make it ideal.

There’s no question that good looks help in life. Humans are psychologically predisposed to be more positively inclined toward people who are physically attractive; a cognitive bias known as the “halo effect” influences people’s judgements and impressions about a person based purely on their physical appearance. A person who is blessed with good looks will frequently have a leg up in the world.

agreed totally with this sentence. It made me sad because sometimes the insecurity devil in me come out to play. How come every other person have double eyelids but me? I hate the fact that i look entirely different with and w/o makeup ): I do not want to put on makeup daily to work since day 1 because i know people will have a shock if i were to come to work with a naked face. I tell myself these people are not important in my life hence i do not need to care but sometimes it just gets to me. I want people to know me for me not the pretty lil mask i put on. 

I see the behaviour of how people treat the prettier one as compared to the less pretty one and it felt so disheartening. when you are pretty, automatically people like you and treat you with tender loving care even if you have not done anything to prove yourself.

"Be nice. Be nice to the new kid that just joined your workplace. Be nice to the red hair girl sitting across you in the bus. Be nice to the stranger you took the lift with. Be nice to the driver that horn at you for being too slow. 
Be nice to the man with full bodied tattoo. Be nice to whoever who has crossed your path and who will cross your path. 
Because being nice is the most simplest thing anyone can ever be"

From a facebook friend's post :)

Yap, tomorrow the 'clothes' for my Iph6+ are finally arriving at my place and the most expensive one is the Sailor Saturn handmade case which I'm gonna proudly use it everywhere i go ya!

Turning 22 years old this year but loving my sailor moonssss, even more than hello kitty nowadays :B

If only I have my own room, I will display all the sailor moon figurines and brooches i can get my hands on but it's fated that I have to save $$ sadz.

It's okay, things are gonna change in the near future I hope. Hopefully It's before 5 years time because imma be 27 by then which is so near to big 30 which scares me to no end !! It's like I really cannot categorise myself as sweet young thing liao T_T 

I'd like to think that I'm still in the SYT club now okay hahaha.

as usual a little update on my non-existent life.

Shall not talk about boring studies since I'm still at the halfway mark but time seems to fly by & it's a good thing because before long I will be wearing that squarish hat and I swear I'll cry on that day cause I'm so touched that I have survived the torturous journey to obtain that exorbitant yet beautiful piece of paper.

Workwise, I have two conflicting thoughts currently.

On one side, I am looking forward to the changes and the new environment + new people i will meet but yet the uncertainty of the future scares me at the same time. A lot of What if's kept popping out in my mind. 

On the other side, I get to earn extra more now since I am getting the pay of the promoted rank + allowances which comes with my current job scope. Enjoy while it last is what i keep telling myself even though sometimes i feel sian of doing the same thing over and over again. 

A lot of the original colleagues who was with me throughout this one year plus have left or are leaving so I guess i wouldn't be too sad leaving this place. 

People come people go, I still hope to create valuable friendships that last :)